Cesar is awesome! Love him!
I like how he is straightforward and tells people how it is. He doesn’t beat around the bush. He kind of reminds me of me J.
But I’m not nearly as personable as he is, nor as talented with
dogs. He is amazing how he reads dogs
and can tell what they’re going to do before they do it. He truly has a remarkable
gift.
Cesar says dogs are
predictable, humans aren’t. When someone
tells him their dog is not predictable, he politely disagrees.
He has so many great
quotes – which I tried to find to put on this blog, but none of the really
great quotes were online. Cesar has said
some very wise things.
I like how he tries
to relate people’s personal experiences to their dogs. He’s really good at that.
Some things I’ve learned
from Cesar:
To be a good pack
leader, you must be calm and assertive.
A good balanced dog
is calm and submissive.
Dogs read humans energy
and will mirror it. If you’re anxious,
they will become anxious.
Dogs will not follow
an unstable pack leader. If you are not
calm and assertive the dog will assume pack leader position.
Dogs do not follow
weak energy and will attack weak energy.
That’s nature.
A balanced dog will
correct an unbalanced dog. Usually through
biting or touching with their mouth.
A balanced dog must
have exercise, discipline, affection. In
that order.
Never give affection
to a dog who is not calm and submissive.
Whatever state the dog is in – excited, anxious, aggressive, fearful,
dominant, etc. will be exacerbated by giving affection in that state. This creates an unbalanced dog. No dog wants to be unbalanced – humans create
unbalanced dogs by humanizing them And
by giving affection at the wrong time.
Do not humanize your
dog! Dogs are not humans. They are animals first, then dogs, then
breed, and lastly personality (individual, name)
Dogs don’t
rationalize, like humans. They don’t understand when they are scared, for
example, and you say, “It’s okay, you’re okay” and give affection – all they
know is you are reinforcing their behavior (fear). And their brain becomes more unstable and not
balanced.
Dogs need rules, boundaries,
and limitations to be balanced.
Claim your
space. Claim the door, claim the couch,
claim your human, etc. Do not let the
dog come into your space, i.e. jump on your lap, without being invited.
When you first greet
a dog – no touch, no talk, no eye contact! Let the dog smell you first. When the dog walks away after smelling you,
then you can greet the dog.
In the dog world it is polite to smell
first. So when a dog smells you, they
are being polite. Dogs do not want to be
greeted until they have had a chance to introduce themselves through smell. Especially
don’t pat the dog on the top of his head until he smells you. That shows
dominance over him. If it is a fearful
dog pet him under the chin first.
Dogs sense first
smell, then sight, then hearing. Nose,
eyes, ears.
Cesar says dogs are
like men, they can only do one thing at a time.
This is why walking is important in creating balance. If you walk the
dog properly, they will only focus on following the pack leader.
Never let the dog
walk in front of you. Pack leader is
always first. Never leave the house with
the dog, unless he is in a calm submissive state. If you leave the house for a walk with an
excited dog, he will never reach a calm submissive state during the walk.
Dogs live in the
present. Whatever bad things have
happened to them in the past is behind them.
So don’t feel sorry for what has happened to them in the past. That just portrays weak energy and will not
only not help the dog, but will create unbalance.
I’m sure there are
more things I’ve forgotten but that’s a good start. I think a lot of what Cesar says is
applicable to humans as well. Since
humans are also pack animals.
In rehabilitating
dogs and training people Cesar has done much good, not only for dogs, but also
for the humans. It is really the humans
who must change if they want to change their dog’s behavior. An unstable dog is
really a reflection of an unstable human. So, in reality, I think Cesar is more
of a human psychologist as he practices dog psychology.
Cesar is remarkable
man, and I would like to think that we would be good friends. If he doesn’t receive the gospel in this
life, I want to be one of the missionaries to teach him in the next life!
That’s my two cents.