Happy Father's Day

This is my sixth Father's Day without my father here on earth.  I miss him dearly.  But I take comfort in the fact that I will see him again.  I think people tend to dismiss fathers as not as important as mothers in the rearing of children because mothers are the primary nurturers but fathers are just as important as mothers in a child's life.  Fathers and mothers have different roles in raising children and each is vitally important.  I am so thankful for the goodly father I was blessed with.  I was blessed beyond measure with wonderful parents.  And for that I'm eternally grateful.

Happy Father's Day, Dad!  I love and miss you so much.  And thank you to all the fathers out there who take seriously the responsibility of fatherhood and unselfishly sacrifice for their children..  Happy Father's Day!

That's my two cents.

Hugs

Sometimes we all just need a hug. 

When Abinadi was young he loved giving hugs.  I was thinking of this photo of Abinadi giving Dallas a hug so I decided to post it along with a couple other photos of Abinadi giving hugs and the joy they bring to the people he is hugging.

This is my favorite picture of Dallas.  The pure joy on his face makes me happy.  I imagine that the happiness in this scene is what we would see in the Spirit World now.  Dallas loves hugs.  I can't wait to give him one when I get there.  In the meantime, there are plenty of other loved ones there who can give him plenty of hugs, including Abinadi.

2013

Abinadi giving Dad a hug in 2013.  I love this photo also because of the joy on Dad's face.  I like to think that these scenes are what we would see in the Spirit World today.  The carefree happiness and pure joy that can be found on the other side.  Seeing these pictures of loved ones that have graduated from mortality makes me think of how happy they are now.  It also makes me long to see them again.  I miss them all so much.

March 26, 2013

Abinadi giving Juliet a hug.  Even Juliet has an expression of pure joy on her face while getting a hug from Abinadi.  And she doesn't even like dogs that much.  :-)

I just love the happiness that Abinadi's hugs gave people.  I'm glad a few of the reactions were captured on camera.

There's just something about hugs that brings comfort and joy.  I can't wait till I can give hugs again.  I'm going to give all of my loved ones hugs on the other side, when I get there, including Abinadi.

If you're having a hard day or just feeling a little blue, find a loved one and give them a hug and see how much better you feel.

That's my two cents.

Happy Birthday Mom

It's hard to believe that Mom would have been 80 years old today.  She died a week shy of her 77th birthday three years ago.  I miss her so much!  I am truly blessed that God chose her as my mother.

I'm so looking forward to the day when we are reunited again.  She was my angel on earth, and now she is my angel from the other side of the veil.

Happy Birthday Mom!

Love and miss you so much!

God be with you till we meet again.

Happy Birthday Dad

Today Dad would have been 79 years old.  Unfortunately, he graduated from mortality nearly 6 years ago when he was 73.  I miss him so much!  I think of him every day.  I can't wait until the day we are reunited again!

Happy Birthday Dad!

Love and miss you tons!

God be with you till we meet again.

Happy Graduation Day, Mom

Today marks three years since Mom graduated from mortality and crossed over to the Spirit World.  I miss her so much.  I cherish all the time I was able to spend with her here on earth.  Especially those sacred last few days of her life.  Mom truly is an angel.  She was an angel here on earth, and now in heaven.

I can't wait until the day I am reunited with her in the Spirit World.  I am so looking forward to that day!

Love you tons, Mom, and miss you so much!

Happy Graduation Day, Mom!

Happy Mother's Day

Mom and Tammy 1971.  I'm posting this picture because Mom liked it.

Happy Mother's Day to the best mom ever.  Tomorrow marks three years since Mom graduated from mortality.  I miss her every day.  I am so blessed to have her as my mother.  Mother's Day certainly isn't the same without Mom here.  I cherish the time I was able to spend with her and all of my memories.

Happy Mother's Day also to the mothers out there who sacrifice so much in raising your children.  Motherhood is truly a sacred gift from God.

Mom kissing Tammy – December 9, 2003

Happy Mother's Day!

Keep All of God's Commandments

I just saw something posted to Church Newsroom Instagram story that irritated me.  Church Newsroom is the official news source of the Church.  The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  They posted some lady saying, "We love God and love our neighbor.  And the way we show that we love God is by loving our neighbor".  That statement is deceptive – as if loving our neighbor is the only way we show God we love Him.  That's only one way to show God we love Him.  The main way we show God that we love Him is by keeping His commandments – one of which is to love our neighbor.  But by no means is that the only way we show God we love Him. God has given us many, even countless Commandments He wants us to follow. 

Doctrine and Covenants 59:4-5

4 And they shall also be crowned with blessings from above, yea, and with commandments not a few, and with revelations in their time—they that are faithful and diligent before me.

5 Wherefore, I give unto them a commandment, saying thus: Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, with all thy might, mind, and strength; and in the name of Jesus Christ thou shalt serve him.

Here, in the Scriptures, the Lord is emphasizing that He has given us "commandments not a few".  Then the very next verse He emphasizes the first great commandment to love God– with all our heart, mind, mind, and strength.  The next verse does mention loving our neighbor.  But right after mentioning giving us "commandments not a few" the Lord emphasizes the first great commandment again, not the second.  This seems to be backwards today. 

There seems to be an increase, lately, in emphasizing the second great commandment – love your neighbor.  That's all people seem to be focusing on now, even in the Church.  Which, is an important commandment obviously.  It's the second great commandment.  But people seem to forget the first great commandment – love God.  And they focus solely on "love thy neighbor".

Jesus said, "If ye love me, keep my commandments." (John 14:15)  Commandments plural, not singular.  Very simple and direct.  

I just think people need to focus more on keeping all of the Commandments, not just one.  As if it's the only commandment that matters. Because He has given us a multitude of commandments – only one of which is to love our neighbor.  Yes, we should all love our fellow man, but if you focus on loving God first and keeping His commandments, loving our neighbor is a natural consequence.

That's my two cents.

Happy Easter

 He is risen!

I am so thankful for Christ's resurrection!  Because of Christ's resurrection we will all be resurrected one day!  I'm so looking forward to that day when I will have a perfected resurrected body!  Words cannot express my gratitude for my Savior and for His love for me and for all of us.

I hope, on this Easter day, that we will all remember our Savior, His Atonement and Resurrection, and reverence Him.

Happy Easter everybody!

That's my two cents.

Trump's Tariffs

I love Trump's tariffs!  It makes me so happy to see President Trump putting America first.  I'm sick and tired of these pansy Americans griping about the tariffs.  They obviously don't understand simple logic.  President Trump is doing what our previous panseric presidents were too chicken to do.  The United States of America has been getting ripped off for decades – my whole life – in trade with the world.  Other countries have very steep tariffs on goods coming from the United States but cry like little babies when Trump levels the playing field.  They are entitled little brats.  Why should we keep subsidizing other countries?  All President Trump wants is fair trade.  Is that too much to ask?

Yes, it may cause a little pain at first.  But it will be well worth the temporary pain to bring jobs back to America and to become more self-sufficient.  All these Americans crying about the tariffs need to chill out and trust our wise leader, President Trump.  President Trump knows what he's doing.  He and his administration have done their homework and understand the consequences of the newly implemented tariffs and know that it will benefit us. 

President Trump is the only president with the guts to actually take on the world and stand up for America.  For that I am extremely grateful.  This is exactly what I voted for!

From what I've read over 70 countries have already come forward asking President Trump to negotiate.  And President Trump being the reasonable dealmaker that he is, is willing to negotiate with these countries.  But, China, being the stubborn communists that they are, is retaliating with higher tariffs on us.  Apparently they are too stupid to realize that we hold all the cards and they can only be on the losing end of that deal.  I'm happy to see that President Trump, after warning China not to add retaliatory tariffs on our goods, has now raised the tariffs on China to 125%!  Play stupid games win stupid prizes China.

The days of the United States of America being ripped off by all the other countries in the world are over!  President Trump wants fair trade.  We deserve fair trade.  And we will get fair trade!

I love President Trump and his tariffs.  I'm so happy we have a president who will fight for us.  God bless President Trump and God bless America.

That's my two cents.

General Conference

This will be short because I'm feeling pretty sick today.  But I just wanted to express my gratitude for General Conference this past weekend and how much I enjoyed it.  Three sessions yesterday and two sessions today.  It's always uplifting to hear from the Lord's living prophet and apostles.  And other General Authorities and General Officers of the Lord's true and living church upon the face of the earth– The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  I'm grateful for the restored gospel of Jesus Christ.  I would encourage anyone reading this blog to go watch General Conference or at least part of it.  You will be uplifted and edified if you do.

You can find a link to watch General Conference here, or on BYU TV, or YouTube.

That's my two cents.

Mortality Works

General Conference is coming up again this weekend.  I can't believe it's been six months already since the last General Conference.  One of my favorite talks from our last General Conference in October 2024 was a talk called, "Mortality Works!"  by Elder Brook P.  Hales of the Seventy. I want to share a few paragraphs of that talk with you. 

"Brothers and sisters, mortality works! It is designed to work! Despite the challenges, heartaches, and difficulties we all face, our loving, wise, and perfect Heavenly Father has designed the plan of happiness such that we are not destined to fail. His plan provides a way for us to rise above our mortal failures. The Lord has said, “This is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.”

"Nonetheless, if we are to be the beneficiaries of the Lord’s “work and … glory,” even “immortality and eternal life,” we must expect to be schooled and taught and to pass through the refiner’s fire—sometimes to our utter limits. To completely avoid the problems, challenges, and difficulties of this world would be to sidestep the process that is truly necessary for mortality to work.

"And so we should not be surprised when hard times come upon us. We will encounter situations that try us and people who enable us to practice true charity and patience. But we need to bear up under our difficulties and remember, as the Lord said:

“And whoso layeth down his life in my cause, for my name’s sake, shall find it again, even life eternal." –"Mortality Works!",  Elder Brook P Hales, October 2024 General Conference

Mortality is hard.  Mortality is full of very difficult trials.  Mortality may seem unbearable at times.  I always say that mortality is a mess.  But, mortality works!

Mortality wasn't designed to be easy.  The whole purpose of mortality is to be tried and tested and prove ourselves to God.  Mortality is a probationary state where we learn and grow and develop Godlike characteristics.

So many people question why they have to go through difficult times and trials that don't seem fair.  We all experience difficult trials.  But I have never questioned why.  Because I know why.  Mortality is a key part of Heavenly Father's plan of salvation or plan of happiness.  We couldn't progress without experiencing mortality.

So, as difficult as mortality is – and it is extremely difficult – I'm so grateful to a loving Heavenly Father for this experience.  I'm eternally grateful that Heavenly Father sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to atone for us.  Our Savior's atonement is necessary for our salvation, it is part of Heavenly Father's plan.  Because of our Savior, Jesus Christ's atonement we can overcome sin, or spiritual death.  And because of our Savior's resurrection, we will all be resurrected one day and will all overcome death.  I am so looking forward to that day! 

Mortality works because of our Savior's grace and atonement.  Mortality works because God does not want us to fail, He wants us to succeed.  Mortality is hard – mortality is a mess – but, mortality works!

If we make and keep our covenants with God, and endure to the end, we will be able to live with our Heavenly Father and His Son, our Savior, Jesus Christ again for eternity.  Because mortality works.  For this eternal truth I am forever grateful.

That's my two cents.

I'm Proud to Be an American

I'm proud of President Trump and Vice President Vance.  I'm proud of the way they handled Zelenskyy yesterday.  They were both calm and assertive.  Very polite yet strong.  I loved it!  I haven't actually watched the whole meeting yet but I did see a couple of clips and it made me even more proud to be an American.

Volodymyr Zelenskyy is an entitled disrespectful brat with little man syndrome trying to dictate to the leader of the free world to continue to give him handouts with nothing in return.  When in reality, Zelenskyy is at the mercy of the United States of America.  Zelenskyy is a wimpy peon.  He has no chance whatsoever to win the war against Russia without our help.  So who does he think he is?  Trying to tell us what to do.  Expecting us to bow to his every wish and command.  Well, not anymore!  That may have worked with Biden.  But there's a new sheriff in town, and President Trump will always put America first.

Obviously Zelenskyy has no concern for his own people's lives.  Vice President Vance pointed out to him that Ukraine doesn't have the manpower to win the war and are already forcing their young men to fight.  I think it was mentioned that 2000 troops were lost just last week in the Russia Ukraine war. 

President Trump tried to mediate a cease-fire and Zelenskyy said he didn't want the cease-fire.  What?!  What an idiot.  He wants the United States to send troops so he can win the war.  That's not happening. Why should American lives be lost in a war between Russia and Ukraine?  That's ridiculous.  Like President Trump said, "We have a big beautiful ocean between us".  

Zelenskyy is like a two-year-old pulling a temper tantrum to get what he wants.  President Trump and Vice President Vance will not kowtow to him.  And I love it!  I'm so tired of the United States of America being a pansy and letting everyone walk all over us.

Zelenskyy needs to man up and do what President Trump is asking to make the necessary concessions to end the war. In the words of the great prophet Jacob, "O be wise; what can I say more?" (Jacob 6:12) 

President Trump wants peace.  President Trump is a dealmaker.  This war would be over if Zelenskyy actually wanted peace.  But instead he wants to have his cake and eat it too.  He wants things his way.  Well, it doesn't work that way when you are relying on the USA.  You don't come to our President and Vice President in the Oval Office and disrespect us, and expect us to help you.  Hopefully Zelenskyy will figure it out soon, before too many more lives are senselessly lost.

I'm so proud and happy to have President Trump and Vice President Vance and the whole Trump administration in the corner of the American people.  It's such a refreshing change. 

Thank you President Trump and Vice President Vance for having backbones and for standing up for us.  Thank you for putting America first!  Thank you for your sacrifice and timeless service for the American people and to the United States of America!

I've always been a very patriotic person who loves my country and I've always been a very proud American.  But I'm even more so now.  I just love President Trump and all he's doing to make America great again!

In the immortal words of Lee Greenwood's patriotic song, "God bless the USA", "… I'm proud to be an American…"

God bless President Trump and God bless America!

That's my two cents.

We Believe in Obeying the Law

What is with all of these liberal pansies bawling about illegal aliens being deported?  What don't they understand about law and order?  Countries have borders.  A country without a border is not a country.  Countries have laws regarding who is allowed to cross the border into their country.  The United States of America is a country with borders.  We have immigration laws.  If you breach our border and come into the United States of America illegally, you are a criminal.  You have broken the law.  By definition you are a criminal.  What is so hard to understand about that?

Now that we have a real leader in President Trump, who is actually enforcing our immigration laws, liberal pansies are losing their minds..  It makes absolutely no sense because all President Trump is doing is making life better for all Americans by deporting illegal aliens.  One thing these bawl baby liberal pansies keep saying is that it is not Christian to deport illegal aliens.  That's a big fat lie.  They are just virtue signaling, jumping on their high horse acting holier than thou.  The truth is, Christ's church teaches that we should obey the law.  The 12th Article of Faith of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints reads, 

"We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law."  (Emphasis added)

It baffles me that so many members of the Church and fellow Christians boldly and defiantly advocate breaking the law.  Even to the point of protesting at the state capital.  It's insane.  These people are judging their fellow Christians who are actually following Christ's teachings in pointing the finger at them as being un-Christlike.  When they should actually be pointing the finger at themselves as being un-Christlike for advocating breaking the law.

If they were listening at church and actually read their scriptures they would certainly know that throughout the Scriptures different groups of people had their own lands and governments.  They had borders! Here is one example:

3 Nephi 6: 1, 4

1 And now it came to pass that the people of the Nephites did all return to their own lands in the twenty and sixth year, every man, with his family, his flocks and his herds, his horses and his cattle, and all things whatsoever did belong unto them.

4 And they began again to prosper and to wax great; and the twenty and sixth and seventh years passed away, and there was great order in the land; and they had formed their laws according to equity and justice.

So in this example, the Nephites returned to their own lands and there was order in the land because they had laws.  And because of this, they prospered.  That is exactly what President Trump wants for America.  He wants us to prosper.  Every great leader will put his country and his people first.  This is what President Trump is doing.  America first.  In order for America and its people to prosper, there must be laws, which are enforced, which create order in the land and allow prosperity.  President Trump understands this.

Bawl baby leftist liberal pansies who cry about President Trump enforcing our laws do not understand this.  If they think that allowing open borders is good for Americans and is the Christlike thing to do, they are sorely mistaken.  Open borders will destroy any nation, and it is certainly not Christlike to break the law of the land.

That's my two cents.

Happy Presidents' Day

Happy Presidents' Day to President Trump, the greatest president not only of my lifetime but in the history of the United States of America.  

It has only been four weeks since President Trump's inauguration and he has already done more good than most presidents do in four years.  I love President Trump even more now than I did during his first term.  He is an incredible leader.  President Trump is brave, courageous, a defender of truth and right, an amazing negotiator, and a tireless fighter!  He is fighting for us and our wonderful country.

Present Trump actually reminds me a lot of my dad.  He is exactly one month younger than my dad to the day.  They were contemporaries.  They share a lot of the same qualities. They are both real men and true patriots.

I am so thankful for President Trump, especially on this day that we celebrate our presidents.  I'm so grateful for a selfless leader who is not President for the power and glory, but out of genuine concern for his fellow citizens and his beloved country.  A true patriot who sacrifices his billionaire lifestyle to serve his country and its citizens to make America great again.

Thank you, President Trump!

Fight, fight, fight!

That's my two cents.

Happy Groundhog Day

I love Groundhog Day.  Today Punxsutawney Phil saw his shadow and therefore predicts six more weeks of winter.  

We haven't had much of a winter here so I was kind of hoping Phil would see his shadow this morning.  

We actually got a few flakes of snow yesterday for the first time this winter.  But it was too warm to stick. After Phil saw his shadow, maybe we'll actually get some snow this season.  We, in fact, have snow in the forecast today.

Happy Groundhog Day everybody!

That's my two cents.